Babbling Beauty

Are You Being Taken for Granted in Your Daily Life?

People tend to be nice to each other. It’s just something that we humans normally do. We like to help our friends, we like to give assistance to those that are in need of it and we expect the same when we’re in trouble. Sadly, there are many people in the world that take advantage of kindness and they’ll abuse it for their personal gain.

To help you spot these people and stay away from them, we’re put together a couple of signs that will help you realize when you’re being taken advantage of.

You don’t feel appreciated for working extra

When it comes to getting work done in the office, there are times when you’ll need to step up and take on extra work or put in additional effort to help the office move along. However, if you feel like you’re constantly working overtime and the only thing you’re being compensated with is money, then you need to consider the fact that your manager could be abusing your kindness.

Monetary awards are fine for working overtime, but you shouldn’t be stressing out your mind and body by working extra every day. Sooner or later, you’re going to end up hurting yourself mentally or physically because you’re pushing your body’s limits. In some scenarios, you may need to contact a personal injury lawyer such as The Jeff Brooke Team to sue your employer due to their negligence. Even if you are being coaxed with monetary rewards for your hard work, no employer should neglect to give their employees time off especially after a stressful period at work. If anything, a pat on the back and a sincere thank you is worth far more than the allure of more money.

 

You’re never informed of important decisions

Whether it’s your spouse making plans that involve you before asking or your boss making decisions at work without informing you, it’s a clear sign that people are taking advantage of you and your kindness.

Even if you care enough about others to not speak up or say anything when this occurs, you need to stand up for yourself. If people are constantly pushing you around and telling you to do one thing or another without giving you enough warning, then it could be because they don’t value your opinion or your advice. For instance, your boss could make an important decision at work without considering your personal opinion. This could mean they don’t trust you or that they don’t care what you have to say and will make a decision without you.

The same counts for your partner or spouse. If they make plans to go to a restaurant without asking if you like the food or the location, then they could be just dragging you along because they know you won’t say anything about it, hence taking you for granted. Remember that your opinion matters and you should never feel like it doesn’t mean anything. Always voice your concerns and stand up for yourself so that your kind nature isn’t abused.

 

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1 Comment

  1. Holly

    April 13, 2018 at 5:39 pm

    I’m terrible about this – I actually just left a job because my manager walked all over me, and my subordinates knew I’d pick their slack.

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